UNPERFECT
Liberating Couples Trapped in The Fantasy of Perfection
How to Get Over Wanting a Perfect Marriage
Marriage is Messy. Our has been very messy, but we found the deepest love developed in our biggest struggles. Through our discoveries, we grew up and learned to practice connection. Money, status, and things did not bring us happiness. Buying the nice house, getting good jobs, having more money, and finding the best school for our kids did not improve our marriage.
We turned the pursuit of stuff into a quest for certainty and security. The trouble is that our pursuit of the American Dream/Fantasy put us on the performance treadmill. After years of pleasing, perfecting, performing, and, many times, hustling to get it right, we’ve come to the conclusion…
We are enough to Jesus, and we are enough to each other.
Unperfect Marriage Course
Darlena and I nearly destroyed one another, trying to create our idea of a perfect marriage. It took embracing our brokenness and a teachable spirit to heal our marriage.
After working on our marriage and counseling hundreds of couples for over 20 years, we didn’t feel like writing an information-only manual about how to make your marriage great. So we travel the country ministering to couples at our Unperfect Marriage Weekend Workshops and our Unperfect Marriage Course.
The Unperfect Marriage Course is a MARRIAGE RESET. This 8-week course comes with all the stuff we learned along the way to restore our marriage. The reset only works if you invest the time to do the work.
You will meet with us and other couples virtually weekly to restore your marriage connection. This weekly meeting allows couples to not feel alone in pursuing change for their marriage and intentional tools and Q&A to address their needs.
The course includes two Unperfect Marriage Workbooks that you will make time each day to do daily lessons, exercises, practice, and prayers. Each day, couples follow instructions much like a spiritual devotional. Making time each day is the only way to produce change in your relationship.
This is a relationship reset. The reset only works if you invest the time to do the work. Do the daily exercises and engage in weekly meetings, and you will experience growth and change within yourself and your marriage.
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We would love to come to your location and minister to the couples in your area with our Unperfect Marriage Workshop.
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